1 00:00:00,100 --> 00:00:05,174 第三章正念日每天每时每刻人们 2 00:00:05,174 --> 00:00:08,449 都应当修习正念说起来容易做 3 00:00:08,449 --> 00:00:10,800 起来却不简单这就是为什么 4 00:00:10,900 --> 00:00:13,574 我在禅修班上建议学员每个人 5 00:00:13,599 --> 00:00:16,237 都应当在一个礼拜中留出一天全身心 6 00:00:16,237 --> 00:00:19,862 地修习正念当然原则上你拥有每 7 00:00:19,862 --> 00:00:23,987 一天每个小时可事实上我们中只有 8 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:28,162 少数人能够如此我们总觉得家庭工作 9 00:00:28,487 --> 00:00:31,087 社会事务占据了自己全部的时间 10 00:00:31,662 --> 00:00:34,737 所以我迫切建议大家一个星期留出 11 00:00:34,750 --> 00:00:38,662 一天或许是星期六如果留出星期六那么 12 00:00:38,674 --> 00:00:40,912 星期六一整天都应当是你的是 13 00:00:40,912 --> 00:00:43,712 你完全主控的一天星期六将成为 14 00:00:43,725 --> 00:00:46,187 一道梯子它会提升你使 15 00:00:46,187 --> 00:00:48,950 你养成修习正念的好习惯和平 16 00:00:48,962 --> 00:00:51,750 工作会或者服务团体的所有工作人员 17 00:00:52,125 --> 00:00:54,587 不管工作有多么急迫都有权利 18 00:00:54,612 --> 00:00:57,662 拥有这样的一天因为没有它我们 19 00:00:57,674 --> 00:00:59,487 很快就会在充满烦恼和忙碌 20 00:00:59,487 --> 00:01:02,549 的人生中迷失自己而我们的 21 00:01:02,562 --> 00:01:05,700 回应也会日渐徒劳无功不管选出哪 22 00:01:05,700 --> 00:01:08,712 一天都可以作正念日为了设定一个 23 00:01:08,737 --> 00:01:11,775 正念日你要想办法在醒来时 24 00:01:11,799 --> 00:01:14,462 就提醒自己那天是你的正念日 25 00:01:15,037 --> 00:01:16,849 你可以在天花板或墙上挂 26 00:01:16,849 --> 00:01:18,825 些东西像一张写着正念 27 00:01:18,825 --> 00:01:21,362 的纸条或者一根松枝任何在 28 00:01:21,362 --> 00:01:23,087 你睁开双眼时可以看到的 29 00:01:23,099 --> 00:01:25,275 东西提醒你今天是我的正念 30 00:01:25,275 --> 00:01:28,062 日今天是你的记住这一 31 00:01:28,062 --> 00:01:30,025 点也许你会感觉到唇边的 32 00:01:30,049 --> 00:01:32,474 一抹微笑这笑容使你确信 33 00:01:32,587 --> 00:01:34,799 自己完全安住在正念中并且 34 00:01:34,812 --> 00:01:37,224 能滋养出更圆满的正念还 35 00:01:37,224 --> 00:01:39,987 躺在床上时慢慢随顺你的呼吸 36 00:01:40,387 --> 00:01:44,450 缓慢绵长且有意识地呼吸然后慢慢 37 00:01:44,450 --> 00:01:47,250 地起床不是像平时那样一下子跃 38 00:01:47,250 --> 00:01:50,049 起来借由每一个动作来滋养正念 39 00:01:50,625 --> 00:01:54,575 起床后刷牙洗脸平静而放松地 40 00:01:54,674 --> 00:01:57,125 做所有早上的事情在正念中 41 00:01:57,224 --> 00:02:00,924 完成每一个动作随顺你的呼吸看好它 42 00:02:01,262 --> 00:02:03,637 不让心念涣散平静地做每 43 00:02:03,637 --> 00:02:06,862 一个动作用安静绵长的呼吸来 44 00:02:06,875 --> 00:02:09,025 测量你的脚步保持淡淡的微笑 45 00:02:09,599 --> 00:02:12,324 至少花半小时洗澡在正念中慢慢 46 00:02:12,324 --> 00:02:14,862 地洗洗完的那一刻你 47 00:02:14,862 --> 00:02:18,074 会感到轻松且焕然一新洗完澡 48 00:02:18,412 --> 00:02:21,025 你可以做做家事例如洗碗 49 00:02:21,312 --> 00:02:24,812 打扫擦桌子拖厨房地板或整理 50 00:02:24,837 --> 00:02:26,937 书架上的书不论做哪一样 51 00:02:27,150 --> 00:02:29,687 轻松从容地做安住正念中 52 00:02:30,237 --> 00:02:33,775 不要为了赶任务做事要下定决心以放松 53 00:02:33,775 --> 00:02:36,087 的状态全神贯注地做每一项 54 00:02:36,099 --> 00:02:39,212 工作享受你的工作与它合一 55 00:02:39,787 --> 00:02:42,099 如果做不到这些正念日将 56 00:02:42,112 --> 00:02:44,562 毫无意义如果你在正念中做 57 00:02:44,574 --> 00:02:47,387 每件事就不会再觉得工作 58 00:02:47,412 --> 00:02:50,525 令人头疼就好像禅师们无论在 59 00:02:50,525 --> 00:02:54,775 做什么举手投足都会不慌不忙非常沉稳 60 00:02:55,074 --> 00:02:57,974 没有丝毫勉强对刚开始修习的 61 00:02:57,974 --> 00:03:01,150 人来说最好在正念日一直保持沉静 62 00:03:01,724 --> 00:03:03,800 这并不意味着你一句话都不能 63 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:07,212 说你可以聊天甚至唱歌但不论 64 00:03:07,212 --> 00:03:09,050 是聊天或唱歌都要对你 65 00:03:09,074 --> 00:03:11,675 正在说什么唱什么保持全然的 66 00:03:11,687 --> 00:03:14,162 正念并且尽量少说或少唱 67 00:03:14,724 --> 00:03:17,937 当然只要觉知自己正在唱歌觉知在 68 00:03:17,937 --> 00:03:21,050 唱什么在唱歌的同时修习正念 69 00:03:21,150 --> 00:03:23,250 也是有可能的不过要注意的 70 00:03:23,250 --> 00:03:25,287 是如果你的禅定功力还 71 00:03:25,300 --> 00:03:28,599 很弱在谈天唱歌时很容易 72 00:03:28,599 --> 00:03:31,500 就会失去正念午饭时间为自己 73 00:03:31,525 --> 00:03:33,962 好好准备一顿饭在正念中 74 00:03:33,987 --> 00:03:37,300 煮饭洗碗早上清理房间后 75 00:03:37,599 --> 00:03:39,637 下午做完园艺或者看过云 76 00:03:39,887 --> 00:03:41,949 采完花后在正念中沏 77 00:03:41,949 --> 00:03:44,287 上一壶茶坐下来好好品尝 78 00:03:44,862 --> 00:03:46,574 给自己充裕的时间去做这些 79 00:03:46,574 --> 00:03:49,587 事喝茶时不要像那些在工作 80 00:03:49,599 --> 00:03:51,337 间歇囫囵咽下咖啡的人一样 81 00:03:51,574 --> 00:03:54,587 要不疾不徐虔敬地喝就好像它 82 00:03:54,587 --> 00:03:57,012 是地球绕着旋转的中轴和缓 83 00:03:57,012 --> 00:03:59,849 地平稳地朝着未来行进而不是 84 00:03:59,875 --> 00:04:02,462 匆匆忙忙地奔去过好真实的 85 00:04:02,474 --> 00:04:05,775 这一刻这一刻就是生活本身 86 00:04:06,349 --> 00:04:08,512 不要做未来的俘虏不要烦恼你 87 00:04:08,512 --> 00:04:10,462 未来要做的那些事不要想 88 00:04:10,462 --> 00:04:12,487 着开始或摆脱什么不要想着 89 00:04:12,512 --> 00:04:15,675 离开当下化为树篱中静静坐着的 90 00:04:15,675 --> 00:04:19,362 芽化为微笑成为这不可思议的存在 91 00:04:19,362 --> 00:04:23,350 的一部分凝立在这儿无须启程这 92 00:04:23,350 --> 00:04:25,812 块土地就像我儿时的故土 93 00:04:25,925 --> 00:04:29,012 那样美丽请不要伤害它请继续 94 00:04:29,024 --> 00:04:32,725 歌唱金芥菜花田上的蝴蝶晚上 95 00:04:33,074 --> 00:04:35,524 你可以诵经并抄下几段经文 96 00:04:35,837 --> 00:04:37,987 可以写信给朋友或是在这周 97 00:04:37,987 --> 00:04:40,087 的日常事务之外做其他你喜欢 98 00:04:40,100 --> 00:04:42,737 做的事但是不论你做什么 99 00:04:43,112 --> 00:04:45,425 都要保持正念晚餐只吃一点 100 00:04:45,437 --> 00:04:48,225 就好这样在十点或十一点坐禅 101 00:04:48,225 --> 00:04:50,574 时空腹会让你坐得轻松 102 00:04:50,587 --> 00:04:53,762 一些坐禅后你可以在晚间清爽 103 00:04:53,762 --> 00:04:56,387 的空气中闲适地散步在正念 104 00:04:56,387 --> 00:04:59,287 中随顺呼吸用脚步测量你呼吸 105 00:04:59,287 --> 00:05:02,987 的长度最后回到房间在正念中 106 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:06,537 入睡我们必须想办法让每个工作人员 107 00:05:06,637 --> 00:05:09,462 都拥有正念日这样的一天至关重要 108 00:05:10,037 --> 00:05:11,812 它对这一周其他日子的影响 109 00:05:11,812 --> 00:05:15,387 是不可估量的十年前多亏了正念日 110 00:05:15,737 --> 00:05:17,412 周文和我们互即互入团 111 00:05:17,412 --> 00:05:20,112 的其他姐妹兄弟才得以引导自己 112 00:05:20,225 --> 00:05:23,962 度过种种难关我相信只要实行每周 113 00:05:23,962 --> 00:05:26,012 一次的正念日你就会在 114 00:05:26,037 --> 00:05:28,487 三个月后看到生命中巨大的改变 115 00:05:29,062 --> 00:05:31,149 正念日会开始渗透到一周内 116 00:05:31,149 --> 00:05:34,762 的其他日子最后你一周七天都 117 00:05:34,762 --> 00:05:37,887 会活在正念中我确定你 118 00:05:37,887 --> 00:05:40,062 会和我一样认同正念日的重要 119 00:05:40,637 --> 00:05:43,137 互即互入团TheTiepHienOrder 120 00:05:43,487 --> 00:05:46,149 TiepHien为越南语意思是互 121 00:05:46,149 --> 00:05:47,562 即互入就是互摄地 122 00:05:47,574 --> 00:05:49,975 存在也就是此即彼彼即此 123 00:05:50,274 --> 00:05:52,175 此中有彼彼中有此 124 00:05:52,475 --> 00:05:54,987 亦即华严经所说的圆融无碍 125 00:05:55,012 --> 00:05:55,475 的境界